Alex and I volunteered our home to be on the annual home tour our neighborhood hosts to raise money for the neighborhood association. Each year, over 2,000 people come to get a glimpse of these old homes, hear their history, and see the way they have been modernized for the modern family. When this many people are going to walk through your home, you really want it to look its best. We had a designer (provided by the neighborhood association) come visit and provide recommendations. We cleaned for two weeks prior. We got every project on the “Honey-do” completed (bonus!). All this in time for the home tour’s big weekend. But we had one dilemma… Continue reading
One good bird
I love a good Roast Chicken. Not those soggy rotisserie chickens from the store, but a homemade roast chicken. It’s cheap, simple, and full of flavor and texture, if done properly. My goal is Continue reading
Good Day’s Work
Every once in a while I work from home, which are really some of my most productive days. I can really focus and get through a large volume of work. One of the things that I love to do on these days, is put some nice cheap cuts of meat on the stove to simmer and soften, so that by the time dinner time rolls around, we have a delicious dinner waiting for us. So easy and Continue reading
And the band played on…
On Saturday evening, Alex and I ventured out to one of my favorite DTSA night… Night of the Altars. Family members set up elaborate altars (ofrendas) to honor the memory of their lost loved ones. Many believe that the gates of heaven are opened at midnight on October 31, and the spirits of the deceased are allowed to reunite with their families. The ofrendas are decorated with sugar skulls, candles, marigolds, and bread called pan de muerto. Sugar skulls represent a departed soul and is placed on the ofrenda to honor the return of a particular spirit. This tradition has been transported to the faces of the attendees with hundreds of people adorning face paint to make the sugar skull come to life.
We began our night with Dinner at the new (and amazing) restaurant El Mercado, which serves tapas style modern Mexican cuisine and inventive cocktails. Our waitresses, of course, donned sugar skull face paint. Alex’s cocktail arrived in a glass cloche full of smoke, which was unveiled at the table with a puff of smoke surrounding our table. Talk about immersive.
We then headed to Art Walk, which is traditionally held on the same night as Night of the Altars, and viewed both static and live art displays. My favorite display this year was a colorful forest of foraged cardboard, which had been painted in vibrant colors and you could wander through the “trees” and see all the different designs. Alex’s favorite was definitely a photo of Hume Lake, his childhood (and adulthood, really) home away from home.
Finally, we headed to the main attraction, which was the altars where we were surrounded by hundreds of people, both live and made-to-look-not-alive. On both sides of the street, candles glowed, and paper flowers were illuminated by the dim light. At the end of the street, a jazzy big band played Mexican music.
As I wrote in my original Night of the Altars post, I was surprised to find Mr. Ward of Santa Ana Winds on an altar. Apparently, Mr. Ward continues to take the opportunity to reunite with his “Winds” family. This night, one of the assistants to the band members approached me while I was listening to them play, and asked… “Weren’t you in “Winds”?” I was surprised, and the man in front of me smiled and said, “I was too, I played trumpet.” As he walked back to the band, I smiled and thanked Mr. Ward for the music, and his legacy.

We the People…
I try not to be political, but today I must ask something of you. I understand that my family, friends and neighbors have views which are different than my own, and I respect that. That is the foundation of our community and our country. Collectively, we will decide what is best for our country, and who we want to represent us.
We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.
This year, many believe there is no perfect answer, but voting is a MORE PERFECT answer than NOT voting.
Tomorrow is your day. Tomorrow is the day to be heard. Tomorrow is the day to exercise your rights. Tomorrow PLEASE vote. Because if you don’t, then your voice will be silenced, and we may end up with a less perfect result.
How to be Neighborly: Support democracy. VOTE.

Food & Comfort
Every once in a while you need a hug. You need some comfort. You need your friends to lift you up. September was such a busy month, and it was on the heels of a really tough week at the end of August, which I shall forever call “The Dark Ages,” and then there was the whole turning 40 thing. Frankly, I had been mentally and physically exhausted despite all the interesting things I’ve been up to. I am so lucky to have neighbors that fill this need. Continue reading
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s brewery
On October 29, our neighborhood hosted our third mixer of the season at Michael & Nicole’s perfectly restored 1923 craftsman charmer. Mixers are casual events where each attendee brings a small snack to share, and we all hang out in the host’s backyard. We always get some really interesting and delicious contributions. The neighborhood association provides the wine.
Now, a bit about our neighborhood. We love our wine. We go through gallons of the stuff at each mixer… curiously at this mixer, no one touched the stuff. Continue reading
Sharable Moments: October 2016
October was MUCH more mellow than September. I spent the first week trying to readjust to the US time zone after my Indian Adventure. There were still some pretty fun moments, though! Here were some of my favorites: Continue reading
Family Circus
Before the wonderfully amazing freak show that was Jeff & Suzee’s party, Alex and I went to his “family circus” party. I thought I loved Halloween… these folks take it SERIOUSLY. I’ve discovered we need to up our Halloween game. Continue reading
Something wicked this way comes…
I mean this in the best possible way… my neighbors are a bunch of freaks. Or at least they were last Saturday. Continue reading
